Today I Will …. Acknowledge that these circumstances are hard and I don’t see a way out. But instead of feeling stuck in between a rock and a hard place, I’ll lean on my Rock and look to Him for rest and peace. As I wait on the Lord, I’ll confess and repent of any sin that led me here. And I’ll focus more on God’s faithfulness than this season’s hardness.
Word of the Day: Rock – Hebrew: cela’. As stronghold of Jehovah, of security (fig.)
Each person should have something or someone to rely on at a hard time. One person chooses to enlist the support of friends and family, whereas the only way to get motivation and assistance for another is to pray to God. No matter what makes you disappointed: personal problems, difficulties in work or studying, etc. — you may ask God and get support. Of course, the problems of school and college students may seem unimportant for some people, but we shouldn’t underestimate their problems. Almost any academic issue can be solved with the help of research paper writers; the main thing here is to find a reliable service. But as for psychological help, many people agree that faith in God and His grace can do wonders. However, if you are stuck with different writing assignments to complete, think no further and get someone to do your research papers for you. A well-researched material is a good basis for excellent papers.
A friend of mine met up at a hotel with a man. A man not her husband. Her husband and she reconciled, then separated, then reconciled once more. Yet they remain with toes peeking over the edge of the breaking point.
Hearts breaking. Spirits breaking. Tempers rising like a flood threatening to break the dam of their resolve to stay together.
She told me it’s straight-up hard. Loving her husband feels hard. Not being annoyed with how loud he breathes or not allowing his finger tapping to grate her nerves. Not letting her heart and mind wander far from home. It’s difficult for her to imagine enjoying being married to her husband for the rest of this life.
Yes, it’s hard. And you know what they say about hard places … sometimes we’re just stuck between them and a rock. Which often makes us feel backed against a wall. But what if, instead of seeing these times as being restricting or hard-pressing, we view them as a time to lean against the Rock; you know, the Lord. Let’s look at Psalm 18:2, when David was running for his life from Saul:
“The LORD is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer, my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” (emphasis added)
The terrain where David lived offered lots of high, lofty rocks to take refuge in. Some of these were caverns, some slits in tall rocks, some overhangs that offered shelter. Here’s the deal though: David had to flee to them to find safety from his enemy.
When we’re tempted to bail out,
because of a relationship fallout,
& circumstances that drain the life out,
—we must hide out in our Rock.
That’s when we need to press into the Lord.
Now, I know this can sound like a lofty idea. An over-used, somewhat frustrating, coffee mug slogan: “Just trust in the Lord. Lean on Him, not your own understanding.” How? How do we take refuge in God?
1. Rekindle your passion. Hard times can drag our attention and affection away from God. When we lose hope, we often lose heart. We quickly can neglect our relationship with Him, leaving us vulnerable to hard times becoming even harder. Proverbs 4:23 instructs us to “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” What is one of the best ways to guard your heart? Saturate it with the Word. Start with reading just one verse. Or listening to just one sermon (resources suggested below). The smallest piece of flint can spark a flame.
2. Retrace your path. Look back … what brought you to this point? Many times we are the unwitting and unwilling recipient of someone else’s destructive decisions. But there are times we play a key- if not lead- role in our circumstances. Pray for clarity and discernment as to the actions that led you here. If needed, confess any sin and repent–to the Lord and to those you sinned against. Unconfessed sin has serious negative effects: “For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long” (Psalm 32:3). But, look at the freedom that comes through confession: “I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, ‘I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,’ and you forgave the iniquity of my sin. Selah” (vs. 5).
3. Recount your past. Sometimes it seems like God’s not good, doesn’t it? Especially when nothing good is coming from your hard time. Ahhh, that’s when it’s so vital to shift our view from searching for an end in sight to looking back on God’s faithfulness in the past. Hebrews 13:8 affirms to us that “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” Our circumstances might change, but God who was faithful then is faithful now and will be faithful to you every step of the way. Charles Spurgeon put it so well: “If I cannot trace His hand, I can always trust His heart.”
I spoke with my friend not too long ago. “I just don’t think happiness is a reality,” she said. Sometimes, in the hard times, happiness will be fleeting. But when we lean on the Lord, security, rest, and protection are always present. As you wait between the Rock and your hard place, take time to read the Bible and pray, confess and repent, and remember His faithfulness.
Continue the Conversation:
How God Cares for Those Who Don’t via Desiring God
God’s Goodness in Your Pain via The Gospel Coalition
Free Online Sermons:
Desiring God – John Piper
Redeemer Church – Timothy Keller
Radical – David Platt
The Village Church – Matt Chandler